Teresa and I had a good time together last night after having dinner. I love my wife, and want to grow closer as time goes by. She made some strides last night in being my lover as well as my friend.

Today we had some nasty weather. Strong winds, heavy rain, and even a tornado watch.

I spent a lot of time troubleshooting some odd problems and learning little details about the equipment I service. I spent the afternoon working in Fayetteville on some problems.

Today we also got the camcorder back from Sony repair. We didn't get to use it much before it broke. We had to pay $154 for repair, but they overcharged me by $53. I am still waiting for a refund check. They claimed that it was mailed some time ago. I'll believe it when I see it. I doubt I will buy any Sony camcorders in the future. I had a lot of problems with their customer service and shoddy product.

My mother remembered our anniversary! The mail delivered a card from her today. It was a day late, but we got it.

Today was our 9th wedding anniversary. I had purchased Teresa a white gold and ruby set of ear rings, necklace, and ring. They were put in a glass music box . She likes rubies and likes music boxes. I told her about Pro 31:10 "Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies" and how she is much more valuable than the jewelry I just gave her.

We went out to dinner to The Steak Barn in Goldsboro. We debated about where to go...someplace more modern like Chili's, where we knew we liked the food and the prices; or someplace different and take a chance. We pondered a new bistro in Clayton, The Melting Pot in Raleigh (it would have cost us a minimum of $90 there just for dinner, so we passed on that one), or some other restaurants we are familiar with.

I wish we had tried someplace else. The food was not real great. The bread was dry, the soda flat and wattery, the kabobs didn't have much meat, the pilaf was dry, and the steak was cooked way overdone. At least we got out for $39 including tip. The waitress, though nice, was straight out of the area's best trailer park. That is not to slight people who live in them (we did for five years), but to contrast the attempted atmosphere of the restaurant with the appearance and demeanor of the waitress. Cul-de-sac neighborhood restaurant with trailer park wait staff. Like I said, she was nice, but better cut out for Hardee's than The Steak Barn.

We also found a stash of "Coffee and Cream" Oreo cookies. We have been looking for them for months. Apparently, they were discontinued. We found shopping carts full of them on clearance at Big Lots.

It is getting late here, so I will head to bed with my bride. We had some quality time together today.

Sort of sad, though...nobody remembered it was our anniversary except us.

We went out today and did the flea market thing. We went to "Little Baltimore", near LaGrange. I was told that the flea market there (I have driven by it many times) is great. We found out differently. It was fairly small. We did find an Avon distributor there to buy some body powder and deodorant from. They are at most flea markets, anyway.

We went to Kinston to see what could be found there. We saw a billboard for the "Global Flea Market". It is just a nearly empty old tobacco warehouse. We saw some books on a bench for a decent individual price. We asked the owners if they wanted to sell them all. They were readily accepting of the idea. They had about thrity to forty boxes total.

Since we only had seventy dollars in cash and they didn't want to take a check, we only took seventeen boxes. We may go back and get more. They wanted more per box than I am accustomed to paying sight unseen, but I figure that it isn't the worst deal I have ever seen AND we have a new contact for future supplies of books. Apparently, vendors who quit doing the flea market have left many cases of used books. The flea market owners were wondering what to do with them. They sell very few at the flea market. It is found money to them.

Now, our house is overflowing with boxes of books. We need to open a book store soon or get a storage warehouse or something...soon!

It looks like Tripod has reclaimed the blogs. Mine was wiped out for a while, along with everyone else's for a while.

Last night, we went to see "Matrix Revolutions". I loved the first Matrix. I saw a lot of cool parallels in that movie. The second movie was a lot of eye candy as far as SFX and action. The third was a downer in that area, I think. The plot was a little bit of a let down, too.

I was thinking the other day about how "The Matrix" could have been better in its plot. First, I think that if Neo was someone like Steven Hawking rather than Keanu Reeves, it would have been more appealing to me. BUT, it would not have been to others and would have been a failure in that regard. The irony of an intelligent man who only has his mind becoming free of physical limitations inside the matrix would have been awesome. Either that, or he loves it so much, he turns evil.

Another thing would have been that since six others had come before Neo, the machines built the matrix inside another matrix. Thus, the statement by "The Architect" about having destroyed Zion six times already would have been true AND they would have still had people enslaved in pods. The truth could have really been that everyone was actually still in their pods, just inside one matrix inside another, and they only thought they were free from the system to begin with. Everyone in Zion was actually still in their pods.

Anyway, Teresa and I will probably be heading out to a flea market or something today. We discussed going to the Outer Banks this weekend, but decided it was best no to. Our anniversary is coming up on Tuesday. Every year, we get away to the Outer Banks for a long weekend. This year, the timing is off and we have other obligations to take care of. Since I have the weekend off, we will just go out for a while to a flea market we have never been to and have breakfast together or something. We also need to go to Sam's Club and pick up some supplies, which is along the way.

Thank God I am on hourly pay now. Last night, I worked until 11PM. That gives me 52 hours for this past week. Overtime has been a foreign concept for nine years of employment with Time Warner so far.

I have to go to the coast again today. Ads for one network are not running on two different systems that are conjoined. I think I know what the problem is. It shouldn't be a hard fix.

I am in communications with a man named Art, that I met a few years back. His church is wanting to work to support a missionary effort to produce radio broadcast programs in native language in Nigeria. Apparently, that country has regulations that demand diversity of broadcasting content, and there is little Christian programming available in native language. Art knew that I do professional recording for radio and TV from our previous meeting and still had my business card.

The group Art is working with seeks to get support to build a full recording studio in Nigeria to produce programming, while at the same time acting in business to appear more secularly "legitimate" and financially support the operation.

I can see several options for them. The cheapest of which can be done in someone's home with a few hundred dollars of equipment rather than the multiplied tens of thousands they wish to spend. BUT, if the reality of the matter is that they need a business cover in order to be accepted for broadcast, I can see why they are looking in the direction they are.

Personally, I would LOVE to travel to Nigeria to help install the studio.

I got home from a trip to the coast today. I ended up going towards Jacksonville, NC only to be told that the problem I was going to troubleshoot was a Road Runner cable modem problem in the whole region. So, I went to Wilmington, NC, instead. There was a problem with TV Guide network in Wilmington. The technician there fixed the problem before I got there, as I found out after getting there. It took some prompting on my part last night as a reminder, but it was done. Then, I went to the Wilmington office for Time Warner Cable AdCast. They are having a problem with one phone line on their phone system. I know NOTHING about office phone systems. That has always been a troubling thing to me. I am expected to troubleshoot things I have never had training for. I am expected to take the time to learn systems in minutes. Then, I am belittled if I didn't take the hours necessary to comprehend the systems.
It would be one thing if this system was in my local office and I wasn't traveling over two hours one way to look at it then travel home. That's a half day just in travel time, not to mention all my other duties for the day. But, that is the company philosophy. Don't bother getting some expert in to fix stuff...try to do it yourself, hose it up, then call in an expert. If I had a whole day to play and experiment, then maybe I wouldn't feel so adverse to the concept. I can figure a good many things out, but it usually takes a little time, trial, and error.

I talked to a good friend of mine today. Tony Conti is another northern transplant here in NC. He is from Rhode Island (where the state motto is "We're Not Really An Island"). Tony is a tall, slender, bald Italian. He's in his fifties, and a Christian brother. I have a soft spot in my heart for Tony. I understand all the trials he has been going through with his family lately. I am perhaps the only person he knows who may be able to relate from first hand experience.
Tony and I have been through a lot together, or at least seen a lot together. We were both abused by the same "spiritual leader", but have both come out the wiser.
We always make plans to do stuff together, but they seldom work out. I do enjoy his company when we can get together, though.
If you are reading this, I encourage you to pray for Tony, since he is going through a lot of struggles with family right now.

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Sort of makes me feel like the end of every "Doogie Houser, MD" episode.

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For quite a while now, I have thought about starting a blog. I knew that my Tripod account would have one available. After a chat with one of my best friends, Rich Soczewinski, I decided to give it a whirl.

I grew up with Rich in Franklin, New Hampshire. He is the only person I went all through elementary school, junior high, and high school with that I keep touch with. I have known Rich for almost 30 years now.

Hey, Rich...if you are reading this, I want you to know that to me, you ARE my brother.